Transformational Success Story!
May 2006Welcome to our Transformational Success Story where I personally interview another one of our very successful clients, Paul Borg. Paul is 31 years of age and has been the Account Manager for Victoria and Tasmania at RCR International for the past 13 months. Paul completed the Transform Your DestinyÂ© weekend seminar with his partner, Natalie, 2 years ago where he set his relationship goals, including to live together with Natalie and to have a family together. Natalie and Paul have been together for almost 3 years, have been living together for the past 2 years, were engaged 6 months ago and are the proud parents of two gorgeous daughters, Sienna and Bonita.
You have made significant changes in your relationship Paul, can you tell us about your transformation?
Natalie and I were not as close before, we didn’t talk about the future and didn’t set goals, there was fear from the past and a lot more misunderstanding and poor communication. We have very different personalities. Before we were aware of these differences, Natalie felt that I was interrogating her and I thought she was aloof and secretive. Being aware of the differences has been a real breakthrough. We now communicate more effectively and are united and committed to what we want for our future. We discovered we both wanted a baby and Sienna was born five months ago. Now, we also take regular time out for the two of us, one on one.
What were the biggest challenges you needed to overcome to get to where you are now?
The mindset - my mindset was holding me back. I had fear, hurt and guilt from the past and no goals to be in a relationship, so kept putting it off. Also Natalie’s and my parenting styles and expectations were different and it was important to discuss and understand the differences. A big positive step forward.
How has transforming your thinking impacted on your success?
Extensively - it made a massive difference. I was really holding back before. Immediately after the Transform Your DestinyÂ© seminar the flood gates opened regarding commitment and the future, because I let go of the baggage from the past, removed the fear and am now focusing on what is positive and good for our family, which has resulted in better communication for all. Now my mindset is focused on what I want because you get what you focus on. I re-evaluated what I wanted and found a new rewarding job with more responsibility and have doubled sales in my territory in the 13 months I have been there. Before, I was in a job that did not suit my personality. Now I am a family of four, while before I was a single man. I now also spend more time with family and interviewed my grandparents and made a documentary as a very special gift for the whole family. It has definitely been a lasting change.
Having now made this change, what do you now enjoy most about your relationship and about life?
I feel I am being true to myself - I am happy now. All areas of my life are now balanced right.
How would you sum up your transformation?
Enlightening and amazing! I have told a number of friends about the seminar. One couple who attended the seminar is now married and another is engaged. The seminar definitely played a big part in also helping those relationships succeed. Working with Qt™ is well worth it. Vesna is genuinely interested in helping people - it is an honourable thing that she does with her good intentions and making a big impact. The techniques are so simple and the way Vesna guides you through the techniques, lots of breakthroughs will stay with you.
Paul is very happy to talk to you about his transformation so please contact Vesna on (03) 9653-9288 for his details.
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