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Relationships
I hit rock bottom. I just left my husband after 3 months of marriage and living in Germany. I left my job and the life that I had in Germany. I visualised I was going to stay there the rest of my life and that was the life I expected. Overnight his affair came out. I left all that behind and came back to Australia. I had many mixed emotions. I was scared how my friends would perceive the whole thing. I also felt really confused and lost and unmotivated to really do anything apart from drinking and partying. I felt like a real failure because the marriage didn’t work, even though I had done everything I could.
Dealing with issues that I suppressed from the past and forgiving people for their actions were my biggest challenges. Forgiving people was a tough one, as was being honest with myself. Initially, I found it hard to verbalise and get out what I wanted for my goals.
Following my transformation, for the first time in my life I feel like I have a clear and positive outlook and that now I can make decisions and choices without letting unresolved emotions get in the way. Setting my three goals was very important. I already achieved my work goal and went back to teaching. Travel is my second goal and now when I budget I make allowances for my annual holiday and already have a trip booked and paid for this year. A new relationship is my third goal and I am working on that goal. Now I have a list of ideal partner qualities that I can refer to when I am thinking of potential partners so I can attract who I really want.
I have already successfully achieved 2 of my 3 goals. I achieved my career goal after the first week of working with Qt, that was by being honest with myself about what I really wanted. I am now 100% happy and confident with my life. Everyone is positive towards me – it’s amazing. I am being invited to everything. I feel like a celebrity – people want to go out with me. I am booked socially a month in advance and I have all this energy. Other people have made nice comments and they can’t believe how different I am. People have been expecting me to be a complete mess - instead my whole life is better than it’s ever been. I am loving life, achieving my goals and dreams. I have the best job – before I could never imagine having such a great job.
Transforming my thinking is the key to success. How what you put out is how people will treat you – this has been a real eye opener for me and I will use that for the rest of my life. Thinking about my day ahead and being positive about the day really helps me. I no longer have those insecurities and worries that things won’t happen because I just make sure that things do happen. I actually look forward to the future and doing things I’ve never done before. I am confident I can achieve it. I used to have sleepless nights and wake up at 4am in the morning and now I have a solid night’s sleep. I’ve always been a person to sit back and get others to organise things. Now I am also organising things and searching for new things to do with friends. I no longer worry about my weight – in the past I always had peer pressure to be skinny and to have that certain
“look”. I am happy being me and my personality comes through rather than what I look like. Yes, the change has definitely been a lasting one because I’ve noticed things are so positive in my life that I just automatically do what I want. It is now very easy and my way of life.
If you are thinking of improving your life, do it now! The longer you put something off, time goes by and you are missing out on all the great opportunities that are out there. It’s amazing how when one door opens, it opens so many other doors.
This has been the most positive life-changing experience. I never thought that my life would be so enjoyable and I’m doing things that I never thought I would be able to do. For example, I now have the confidence to get up in front of people and talk. I have always been a person that sat on the fence and now I make clear choices and go forward without regrets. I can see everything clearer. Qt offers fantastic thinking techniques that really help to detach your emotions and see the bigger picture. It’s been so easy, a short transformation rather than spending months in counselling just talking about the same old issues over and over again.
M. A. - Teacher
The break-up of my 10 year marriage gave me an immense sense of loss and helplessness. I felt as if the sign posts I once put on my road had been taken away. Deep down inside I knew this wasn’t me and I had to put up new sign posts to continue my life’s journey.
During my transformation, I started to look at myself from the outside and the world around me. I slowly started to get my confidence back. The sense of loss I experienced turned into an opportunity for personal growth. I began thinking and dreaming again, as a result, I started to create new sign posts along the way. I’m enjoying the journey…
The biggest challenge was learning to live alone and doing things without the kids and not feel selfish about it.
I learnt new tools and developed new skills to make everyday a great day, and expect tomorrow to be an even better day! Being able to create my life and my day the way I want it to be. After a couple of sessions with Qt, I felt the change, and people around me started to notice the change in me – the transformation. In the case of unexpected events, I now think about what my contributions to such events have been so I learn from it. The major emotions I now feel are of having a vision and somewhere to strive for. When I see the kids now, we all make the most of that time, it’s great to hear “Dad, you’re the best!...”. It’s a life changing experience and that is what I needed.
Qt showed me how to think my way through life the way I want life to be. My thinking now is always to improve things. I am aware of my thoughts on a daily basis and correcting them to my desired outcomes. Yes, the change has been a lasting one because I do that on a consistent basis. The way I was feeling a year ago to the way I feel now – it is a tenfold difference because I now make everything around me to suit my lifestyle. It is a continuous process. I now have the power to enjoy everything in life because I know how to change it to suit me.
Thank you Vesna, the last 12 months have been a life transforming experience. It has been my biggest ever personal growth experience that I’m sure will continue for life.
R. F. - IT consultant
I'm very happy that you helped me to overcome my anger, doubts, and insecurities about myself. Overcoming anger was something that I wanted to do for very long time as it was affecting my relationship, and you gave me chance to look at it all from different point of view.
I feel so much more fullfilled now with myself and my life, that I can freely now say that I can continue with my life on a better road than I was travelling before. I experienced change and great results, and I'm very happy that I have met you.
K. B. - Newlywed, Employment Consulant
We were referred to Dr. Vesna to help us with our son who had been experiencing separation anxiety. Following an initial consultation with her, we have had positive results with our son. Today he actually stayed at day care for the first time without me being there. Yes, he cried when I was leaving but he wasn't hanging off me for dear life. The carer said that he was fine, apart from when his sister started crying for me - she would set him off. Apart from that, it's been good. He is also starting to open up and wanting to stay at my in-laws, which is great.
The session we had with you really opened my husband’s eyes as to what his role as a father is. He is interacting more and understands that it's not easy raising 2 toddlers.
Thank you so much for your help and guidance.
J. B. - Homemaker
Thank you so much for last night's session and helping us to resolve the issues we had with other people. We both feel extremely happy, lighter, more focused and energised. And the other people's behaviour towards us has completely changed - they are much more loving and respectful towards us now! Thank you so very much for all your support.
Y. G. - Health Industry
Thank-you for your absolutely wonderful support in helping me achieve my relationship goals! I met my ideal man four months after we set my goals and the main breakthrough for me has been accepting his love and feeling worthy and deserving of his love – a major turnaround for me. We are now married and expecting our first child. Thank-you for helping me realize real love and happiness.
A. P. – Marketing Manager
My transformation has been enlightening and amazing! Before that I had fear, hurt and guilt from the past and no goals to be in a relationship, so kept putting it off. Immediately after the Transform Your Destiny© seminar the flood gates opened regarding commitment and the future, because I let go of the baggage from the past, removed the fear and am now focusing on what is positive and good for our family, which has resulted in better communication for all. Now my mindset is focused on what I want because you get what you focus on. I re-evaluated what I wanted and found a new rewarding job with more responsibility and have doubled sales in my territory in the 13 months I have been there. Before, I was in a job that did not suit my personality. Now I am a family of four, while before I was a single man. It has definitely been a lasting change.
I have told a number of friends about the seminar. One couple who attended the seminar is now married and another is engaged. The seminar definitely played a big part in also helping those relationships succeed. Working with Qt is well worth it. Vesna is genuinely interested in helping people - it is an honourable thing that she does with her good intentions and making a big impact. The techniques are so simple and the way Vesna guides you through the techniques, lots of breakthroughs will stay with you.
P. B. - Salesperson
I just wanted to take a moment to let you know some of the positive changes that I have experienced since our session together. First of all, I feel like I have let go of a bunch of “dead weight” that I had been carrying around in my sub-conscious for years… what a relief! Also, my relationships with key people in my life – particularly my mother and my partner – have just taken wings. A lot of old stuff that I was having trouble with just went away. As if that is not enough, I have been able to really easily focus down on one major project and give it my full attention without sabotaging myself and things are starting to really take off. What can I say other than, “WOW! Thank you so much!”
J. S. - Entrepreneur
Congratulations on the effectiveness of your techniques. We worked together one on one nearly twelve months ago. Initially I noticed many improvements in my life both socially and at work. My confidence and assertiveness increased significantly over the last six months. I have used it more and more and as a result have met my soul mate and landed my dream job. Thank you! I know I did the work and you helped me learn the techniques to make this happen. You have always been positive, supportive, helpful and sensitive in your approach, not to mention very upbeat. I would not hesitate to recommend NLP with yourself at anytime. Keep up the good work.
K. L. – Interior Decorator/Designer
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