Transformational Client Success Story – Transform Anxiety, Stress and Negative Self-Talk
Welcome to our Transformational Success Story where I personally interview one of our very successful clients, Ella. Ella is a sales manager for a large property developer and lives with her husband in beautiful regional Victoria. She enjoys walking in the country air, exploring new places, cooking for her close family and friends, riding her Harley Davidson and enjoying her love of cars.
You have had a huge transformation recently Ella, please tell us about it.
Prior to my transformation with Dr Vesna I was fueled by constant anxiety, worry and stress – I would constantly beat myself up and didn’t know how to free myself from mental and emotional baggage, and the unexpected passing of my dad was the final straw and I knew that I needed to change and fast.
I was extremely nervous when I started my transformation with Dr Vesna but she certainly makes you feel so supported and safe and you will become lighter and calmer as you work though each session. I have tried various forms of therapy over the years and nothing has worked as quickly or effectively as the sessions that I have completed with Dr Vesna. I discovered many things during the therapy including my purpose and there were many moments of clarity and direction. With patience and persistence, you can achieve anything.
I am still amazed to this day how quickly you can transform years of negative thoughts and emotions – if you are open, honest and trusting of the process, you will succeed, just like me. I am now calm, confident and excited about my new life, I have been totally transformed.
What were the biggest challenges you needed to overcome to get to where you are now?
The biggest challenge for me was to love and accept myself and know that I was worthy and deserving of a beautiful life. I desperately wanted that life but I would constantly sabotage myself with negative thoughts and self limiting beliefs. I felt like my thoughts and emotions were automatically programmed to be negative and I would shut down any moments of joy or happiness. Dr Vesna has totally transformed this, I know that I am deserving of this incredible life.
I know that I had to step out of my comfort zone to heal and believe that I could be the person I always wanted to be – happy, full of energy and passion for life, fun, creative and free from worry or cares.
To what extent has working with Qt helped you to transform your confidence, relationships and life?
I do not strive for perfectionism, I am not a people pleaser, I feel confident and strong. I make decisions with ease and don’t doubt myself. I am not afraid to speak up anymore.
I have a genuine appreciation for me and all that I have achieved. I have worked extremely hard in my working and personal life and it is nice to look at what I have been able to achieve – I now know that I need to celebrate the wins throughout the journey and I am allowed to feel pride for what I have done.
I have corrected my work/life balance and I do not feel guilty when I am not working, and know that time away from work is important so that you can recharge and rejuvenate and spend quality time with my loved ones.
I know that my health is an integral part of creating the life that I want, so I take care of my mind, body and soul – I no longer treat my health as something that happens to me, I prevent illness by being kind and loving to myself.
How has transforming your emotions and thinking impacted on your personal and professional success?
My old habits are gone and I no longer engage in thoughts, feelings or actions that make me feel negative. I now know how to control and regulate my own emotions and thoughts. I do not try to control things beyond my own line of responsibility.
I am focused on what I would like to achieve by establishing goals and taking the action to make them reality and it feels great. I know that I am worthy.
What has been the biggest change for you?
Realizing that all the resources that you need are within yourself and once you learn to work with your unconscious mind, there is nothing that you can’t handle.
You need to nurture and grow the relationship that you have with yourself, and this will then allow you to live life with confidence.
Having now made this change, what do you now enjoy most about life?
I have an abundance of energy, drive and passion for life. I know that I deserve my life full of calm, ease and peace. I love connecting and spending time with my loved ones. I am now creating habits that align with my goals.
How would you sum up your transformation?
My transformation has been life changing with the incredible support of Dr Vesna. When we started working together, I wanted to achieve a whole new version of myself and I have certainly done that, I am now confident and strong within my true self. I focus on what I would like to achieve and take the steps to make it happen.
I want everyone to be able to feel like me so take the time to invest in yourself and create the life that you deserve. This has been one of the greatest achievements in my life, putting myself first and creating the person that I have always wanted to be, and you will not find a better partner than Dr Vesna to help you achieve your desired life.