Transformational Success Story!
Welcome to our Transformational Success Story where I personally interview one of our very successful clients, Samantha. Samantha is 50 years of age, lives in Melbourne and has 4 children. She works as a nurse while juggling family life. Her days are always busy, and she loves to escape the city, and go hiking with her children and dogs.
You have had a huge transformation recently Samantha, please tell us about it.
I recently got to the lowest point in my life where I felt so depressed and alone that I didn’t want to wake up and go through another day. My thoughts and emotions were terrifying me and nothing was helping me to feel better. I was grieving the loss of an 11 year relationship with my special person. I had placed any hope of a happy future in the hand of this person and the relationship. I was convinced my future was hopeless and couldn’t see a way of ever feeling happy again. I was badly depressed and scared and triggered by the thought of being alone. My other relationships were also suffering as I had nothing left to give to anyone.
Despite being on a high dose of antidepressants and having regular therapy….nothing was changing. It had been 9 months and I was completely broken. Luckily, I had just enough strength and insight left to know I needed to dig deep and get out of the awful place I was in. I was stuck and knew something had to change, however I didn’t know exactly what, or where to start. I did some research and came across Qt. I had an introduction call with Dr Vesna to discuss my issues and find out about her work. Dr Vesna was so calm, caring and knowledgeable that I knew I had to try her program. I committed fully and willingly to the process. It has only been a couple months since I began this journey, and so far it has been profound. Dr Vesna has given me life-long tools and I know I will continue to transform my thinking and behavior.
What were the biggest challenges you needed to overcome to get to where you are now?
So much of my issue was the fear of being alone. I was extremely stuck and lonely and couldn’t find anything to fill the emptiness. I felt completely hopeless and convinced this was how I was going to feel forever. My thoughts were very negative and I was catastrophizing my life. Dr Vesna helped me to uncover and clear my past, especially of abandonment. My triggers were often linked to something from my past that was unrelated to the current events. I needed to let go of these past events and the emotions attached to them. I also had to trust in myself and take responsibility for my own happiness.
To what extent has working with Qt helped you to transform your confidence, relationships and life?
Dr Vesna was so patient, non-judgmental and caring. I felt safe and supported throughout the sessions and had complete confidence in the process. Dr Vesna guided me to uncover why I was being so triggered by my current circumstances. I identified where these overwhelming beliefs and emotions were coming from and Dr Vesna guided me to unhook from these events in my past. I now have much more confidence, boundaries in my relationships, which have changed how others treat me, and I know that I can take care of myself and I have everything I need to be happy. I and am also filled with so much gratitude for the people and relationships I have in my life. It is truly a peaceful place to be.
How has transforming your emotions and thinking impacted on your success?
Throughout the process, Dr Vesna helped me to uncover and unhook me from some deep emotional triggers. As I learned to change my unhelpful thinking, my emotions also changed. With these new thoughts, a new perspective began to emerge…. Maybe I could find happiness within myself…. I now have a deep understanding of the power of my thoughts. I am now very mindful of what I tell myself. I feel that this shift in thinking has been a huge part of my learning and success.
What has been the biggest change for you?
I actually wake up each morning and look forward to my day. This is such a welcome relief. I am actually happy! I know that any challenges that may come will not send me back into the terrible dark place I was in. I have so much more confidence and self worth. I know I don’t have to rely on anyone else for my happiness.
Having now made this change, what do you now enjoy most about life?
I enjoy the simple little things that I used to. I have a positive and enthusiastic outlook about my future and can’t wait to see what happens next. I honestly know it will be good, and I will be OK.
How would you sum up your transformation?
The work I have done with Dr Vesna has rescued me from the terrifying place I recently found myself. The transformation in how I think and feel has been life changing. I can literally feel the positive energy and successes seeping into every corner of my life. I am so thankful to Dr Vesna for helping me to reconnect with myself and show me how to create the life I want. I will take the skills I have learned and use them forever. I am so so grateful to feel happy and at peace.